Every pet has a personality all their own—that’s part of what makes them such a joy to share life with. But sometimes, their quirks turn into challenges that leave pet parents feeling frustrated, worried, or even defeated. The good news? Behavioral issues are very common, and with the right tools, patience, and support, most can be managed or even resolved.
At The Veterinary Center of Parker, we believe that behavior is just as important to your pet’s health as nutrition or exercise. A pet that feels safe and confident is a pet that can thrive.
Let’s look at some of the most common issues and what you can do to help your furry friend.
1. Separation Anxiety
What it looks like: Your pet may cry, bark, howl, chew, scratch doors, or have accidents when you leave the house. Cats may hide or stop using the litterbox.
Why it happens: Many pets feel stress when left alone, especially if their routine suddenly changes (think: back-to-office work schedules).
What you can try:
- Start with short departures and slowly increase the time you’re away.
- Leave safe enrichment toys or puzzle feeders to keep them busy.
- Create a calm environment with white noise or calming music.
In severe cases, ask us about pheromone products, supplements, or medication that can ease anxiety.
2. Leash Pulling
What it looks like: Walks feel more like your dog is walking you than the other way around.
Why it happens: Dogs are naturally excited to explore! Without training, they’ll move ahead to get to what they want faster.
What you can try:
- Use a no-pull harness instead of a collar for safety.
- Practice “stop and go” walking: stop when your dog pulls, move forward only when the leash is slack.
- Reward good walking behavior with treats or praise.
- Keep training sessions short and consistent—progress happens step by step.
3. Excessive Barking
What it looks like: Barking at the doorbell, strangers on walks, or even at nothing at all.
Why it happens: Dogs bark to communicate, sometimes from boredom, fear, excitement, or wanting your attention.
What you can try:
- Identify triggers (delivery trucks, other dogs, etc.) and work on desensitization.
- Increase exercise and mental stimulation—tired dogs bark less.
- Reward your dog when they’re calm and quiet.
- Avoid yelling—it can make your dog think you’re barking with them!
4. Fear at the Vet
What it looks like: Shaking, hiding under chairs, refusing to enter the clinic, or vocalizing during exams.
Why it happens: Strange smells, new people, and past stressful experiences can make the vet overwhelming for pets.
What we do:
At VCPI, we’re committed to making visits as calm as possible. That includes:
- Using treats and gentle handling- including examining pets on the ground so they feel more comfortable at their level.
- Offering outdoor exam spaces for dogs who feel calmer outside.
- Creating cat-friendly rooms designed with feline comfort in mind.
- Encouraging “happy visits” by bringing your pet in just to get treats and pets without any procedures.
What you can do:
- Practice carrier or leash training at home.
- Bring a favorite blanket or toy.
- Schedule earlier appointments if your pet is more anxious later in the day.
5. Destructive Behavior (Chewing, Scratching, Digging)
What it looks like: Shredded pillows, scratched furniture, dug-up backyards.
Why it happens: Often a sign of boredom, excess energy, or stress relief. Puppies and kittens also chew and scratch as part of normal development.
What you can try:
- Provide appropriate outlets like chew toys, scratching posts, or dig pits.
- Increase daily play and exercise.
- Rotate toys to keep things interesting.
Rule out underlying health issues. Sometimes pain or anxiety can drive destructive behaviors.
When to Ask for Help
If your pet’s behavior is:
- Putting them (or others) at risk of harm,
- Affecting their quality of life, or
- Leaving you stressed and unsure what to do?
…it’s time to talk to your veterinarian. Sometimes, behavioral issues are tied to medical conditions like thyroid disease, pain, or neurological changes, especially in senior pets. If medical issues are ruled out, we can connect you with professional trainers and veterinary behaviorists who specialize in more advanced cases.
The Takeaway
Behavioral challenges don’t make your pet “bad.” They’re simply signals that your pet needs guidance, training, or support to feel safe and confident. With patience, consistency, and the right resources, you can strengthen your bond and help your pet live their happiest, healthiest life.
Remember: You don’t have to do it alone. If your pet is struggling with a behavior issue, reach out, we’re here to help!